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Gordon Neufeld on Sibling Rivalry: Sibling rivalry is a very common problem. By treating our children as equals, we think we’re doing them a favor, but the attachment processes don’t work this way. If you help matchmake one to be the answer to the other, they move to take care of each other, to help each other, rather than compete with each other. And if we got those kinds of things right, we would have much less problems with sibling conflict and rivalry. Find courses and free resources from Go
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Dr. Gordon Neufeld on empathy: "Empathy is the fruit of caring. It is a spontaneous outcome if conditions are conducive. That's the part that should be our focus and concern." We invite you to watch this four-minute preview of our new online offering, The Natural Roots of Empathy. Dr. Neufeld traces empathy to its natural roots in attachment, feelings and development. After years of putting the pieces of the empathy puzzle together, he presents his two-factor model for the development of empathy
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Why Some Kids Seem Bossy | Dr. Gordon Neufeld on Alpha Children More and more children today are presenting as bossy, prescriptive, and demanding — what Dr. Neufeld calls alpha children. Behind this behavior is often an alpha complex — a child attaching by taking the lead, rather than resting in our care. If you’d like to learn more about this dynamic, Gordon Neufeld has unfolded it in a 4-session course, Alpha Children: https://www.neufeldinstitute.org/alpha #alphachildren #parenting #attachmen
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Our deepest drive isn’t survival — it’s togetherness. In this clip, Dr. Gordon Neufeld explains emotion as Nature’s way of taking care of our most basic need: attachment. When something goes wrong, our first impulse is to seek our people — Where’s mom? Where’s dad? Where’s my family? — even if it means moving toward danger rather than away from it. Emotion, in his words, serves attachment. It rises most strongly when separation is faced and works to close the gap between us. When we see behaviou
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Dealing with Misbehaving In this video, Dr. Gordon Neufeld addresses one of the most common questions parents ask: what to do when a child misbehaves. He explains that most problem behavior is rooted in instinct and emotion, so it’s ineffective to battle the symptoms. Instead, the guiding principle should be to do no harm—to preserve the relationship and the child’s dignity. Neufeld emphasizes the importance of “bridging” after misbehavior: reassuring the child that the relationship is intact be
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Dealing with Misbehaving In this video, Dr. Gordon Neufeld addres…
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FREE event with Dr. Gordon Neufeld & Heather Ferguson — November 24th at 11AM PT - Register at NeufeldInstitute.org/taste How do we give a child a firm, non-negotiable no while also offering the warm, soft landing their emotions require? This is one of the core challenges of parenting with attachment in mind — and one of the themes we’ll explore together. Together With Celena Krahn, Heather Ferguson will be leading Power to Parent I: The Vital Connection starting this January. Dr. Neufeld and He
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“Aggression is one of the most misunderstood behaviours.” – Dr. …
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“Children must never work for our love. They must rest in it.” - Gordo…
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Join leading expert in attachment, Dr. Gordon Neufeld, at our spring …
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Why it’s profound This was said by the incredible Gordon Neufeld. He …
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“We have been using what children care about against them. We’ve be…
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“For transplanting to be successful, children need to adopt their new ‘…
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Why do teenagers pull away — and how do we tell the difference betw…
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"When we lose our playfulness, we're in trouble. Children need to …
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The most powerful force in parenting is invisible — and yet ev…
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Play has become an endangered activity - Dr. Gordon Neufeld
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Relationship Matters | Dr. Gordon Neufeld | TEDxWestVancouverED
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Alpha Children Preview Video
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The Truth About Yelling At Kids - Gordon Neufeld, PhD
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The Essential Nature of Play with Dr. Gordon Neufeld
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How to Help a Child with Impulsive Behavior - Gordon Neufeld, PhD
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Are Time-Outs An Effective Form Of Punishment? - Gordon Neufeld, PhD
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The Power of Addiction and The Addiction of Power: Gabor Maté a…
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How to Develop Good Attachment with your Child - Attachment Pare…
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Screaming at Kids - Why it never works: Dr. Gordon Neufeld.
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Dr. Gordon Neufeld on empathy (3 min)
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Gordon Neufeld: what makes a bully?
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